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Written by Lena Raff

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MICK & BIANCA JAGGER C/O LICHFIELD ARCHIVE/GETTY IMAGES


There are few constants in life–predictable occurrences one can count on with nearly complete certainty. One of those constants? That wedding season will arrive with a bang every spring, bringing with it an array of gift-giving opportunities. Whether you love selecting thoughtful, personal gifts (the kind that they never knew they needed but can’t imagine living without), or you dread any occasion that might require buying wrapping paper, we have you covered with perfect gift selections for everyone who has helped to make the big day possible.

Selecting the right present is a special skill that takes practice, research, empathy, and time. Luckily for you, our STAFFERS (including the writer of this piece, who is getting married in just six weeks) have spent years honing our gift-giving skills, and have drawn upon our well-earned expertise to curate the list of perfect gifts for anyone and everyone involved in weddings, leaving you free to float through the season on a carefree cloud of champagne and rose petals, secure in the knowledge that you chose exactly the right thing.

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FOR THE BRIDESMAIDS, FROM THE BRIDE(S): Both practical and pampering, these expertly crafted brushes sport elegant, ergonomic wooden handles and are perfectly shaped for an effortless, seamless application. They will have the bridal party looking flawless on the day, and prompt a little reminiscing about the happy memories whenever they reach for them.

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The Brush Trio

Ami Colé

The Brush Trio

$52.00
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FOR THE GROOM(S), FROM THE BEST MAN: Give your friend a sexy little something to add some romance to the wedding night. This lightly-scented candle melts into a silky massage oil that will be a gift for everyone involved. Pro tip: Don’t forget to include a lighter. For extra credit, have one personalized.

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Kiki Massage Oil Candle - Size: 5.95 oz - Color: Santal

Kiki de Montparnasse

Kiki Massage Oil Candle - Size: 5.95 oz - Color: Santal

$75.00
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FOR THE GROOMSMEN, FROM THE GROOM(S): They’ve had your back through it all, now have theirs by keeping your groomsmen smelling great from cocktail hour to dessert. This dentist-created mouth wash kills odor-causing germs so breath smells fresh, plus the tiny bottle is incredibly discrete.

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Marine Bio-Active Mouthrinse

Olas

Marine Bio-Active Mouthrinse

$24.00
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FOR THE MOTHER-IN-LAW, FROM THE BRIDE(S): The special moment of officially becoming family calls for a gift infused with love, so pamper your new mother-in-law with the luxurious, relaxing Gold Cryo Facial set from Angela Caglia. These massage tools will help her unwind post-party while soothing and depuffing eyes swollen from crying (or drinking). Plus, she’ll always have these keepsake pieces to remind her of the once-in-a-lifetime day. Pro tip: Pair this with a heartfelt handwritten note, your words will be the real gift.

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Gold Cryo Facial Set

Angela Caglia

Gold Cryo Facial Set

$125.00
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FOR THE MAID OF HONOR, FROM THE BRIDE(S): Other than your soon-to-be-spouse, she’s the one. She’s your rock, your best friend, your sister (biological or otherwise). Show her how much she means to you by giving her a little something extra that makes her feel her most beautiful. This lip stick in easy-to-wear neutral gives her the perfect lip for all of the occasions surrounding the wedding, while keeping her lips comfortable and hydrated. Plus, the luxe tube fits in a tiny clutch so she can touch up throughout the night and look cute doing it.

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Lip Suede Matte Lipstick

Westman Atelier

Lip Suede Matte Lipstick

$50.00
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FOR THE BEST MAN, FROM THE GROOM(S): Traditionally, groomsmen aren’t encouraged to share in the same getting-ready rituals as the bride’s side. They don’t typically have a staff of hairstylists and makeup artists at the ready, but that doesn’t mean the men-folk don’t want to look and feel their best too (see: Grooming for Grooms). Gift your right-hand-man these cult-favorite, de-puffing, hydrating eye masks that will have him admiring himself in the mirror, and picking them up the next time he wants to look extra suave.

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Cryo De-Puffing Eye Mask

111SKIN

Cryo De-Puffing Eye Mask

$110.00
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FOR THE WEDDING PLANNER, FROM THE COUPLE: This candle says it all. You wouldn’t have gotten through the day without them, so tell your planner how…fabulous they are. This infamous candle will look stylish on their desk and fill their office with a sophisticated scent. Pro Tip: If you love your planner, spread the word! The gift of future business is the gift that keeps on giving.

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Fucking Fabulous Candle

Tom Ford Beauty

Fucking Fabulous Candle

$140.00
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